{"id":11667,"date":"2024-07-02T06:09:29","date_gmt":"2024-07-02T06:09:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=11667"},"modified":"2024-07-03T02:54:33","modified_gmt":"2024-07-03T02:54:33","slug":"4-kieu-treu-choc-tuong-chung-vo-hai-nhung-hai-khong-tuong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/4-kieu-treu-choc-tuong-chung-vo-hai-nhung-hai-khong-tuong\/","title":{"rendered":"4 ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng “h\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p c\u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i? M\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f9a vui, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gieo v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng dai d\u1eb3ng. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec3m qua 4 ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb:<\/p>\n

1. Ch\u00ea bai ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

“Sao con b\u00e9o th\u1ebf?”, “Sao t\u00f3c con ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7n v\u1eady?”, “Sao da con ng\u0103m \u0111en th\u1ebf?” – nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc vui v\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi b\u1ecb ch\u00ea bai ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 thu m\u00ecnh, xa l\u00e1nh giao ti\u1ebfp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n \u0103n u\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd coi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i! Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 “Sao con b\u00e9o th\u1ebf?”, “Sao t\u00f3c con ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7n v\u1eady?”, “Sao da con ng\u0103m \u0111en th\u1ebf?” kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f9a vui. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em.<\/p>\n

Ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin.<\/h3>\n

Khi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb ch\u00ea bai v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh. H\u00e3y th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em. Thay v\u00ec t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng cho con em ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

2. D\u1ecda n\u1ea1t:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

“Ngoan ngoan kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec tao cho ch\u00f3 c\u1eafn!”, “Kh\u00f4ng \u0103n th\u00ec tao \u0111\u00e1nh!”, “H\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y \u0111i \u0103n m\u00e0y!” – nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f9a vui l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh trong th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. Khi b\u1ecb d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t an to\u00e0n, thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u01b0 lo \u00e2u, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng hung h\u0103ng, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Ngoan ngoan kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec tao cho ch\u00f3 c\u1eafn!”, “Kh\u00f4ng \u0103n th\u00ec tao \u0111\u00e1nh!”, “H\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y \u0111i \u0103n m\u00e0y!” kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i.<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111e d\u1ecda nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ecb d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an, lo s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n lo \u00e2u, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ef1 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Thay v\u00ec d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi \u0111e d\u1ecda, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. H\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ngay nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 tin, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

3. So s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

“Sao con kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n A?”, “Sao con h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n B?”, “Sao con ngoan ngo\u00e3n kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n C?” – nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u so s\u00e1nh t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti, thua k\u00e9m v\u00e0 ghen t\u1ecb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi b\u1ecb so s\u00e1nh, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd so s\u00e1nh con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c! \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Sao con kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n A?” hay “Sao con h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n B?” kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t, v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n

So s\u00e1nh ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti, thua k\u00e9m v\u00e0 ghen t\u1ecb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Thay v\u00ec so s\u00e1nh, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch so s\u00e1nh c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf.<\/h3>\n

N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, n\u01a1i tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

4. \u0110\u00f9a c\u1ee3t v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

“Sao con t\u00e8 ra qu\u1ea7n?”, “Sao con n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i?”, “Sao con l\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m \u0111\u1ed3?” – nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, b\u1ebd m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khi b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 che gi\u1ea5u nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd coi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em! Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Sao con t\u00e8 ra qu\u1ea7n?”, “Sao con n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i?”, “Sao con l\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m \u0111\u1ed3?” c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc cho t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n non n\u1edbt c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 b\u1ebd m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed7i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb.<\/h5>\n

Khi b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng che gi\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cho tr\u1ebb. Khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1edfi m\u1edf. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc n\u00e0y t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng cho tr\u1ebb.<\/h5>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh, n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i hay l\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m \u0111\u1ed3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 \u0111\u00f9a vui v\u1ebb. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, b\u1ebd m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y d\u1eebng ngay nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a n\u00e0y! Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. Thay v\u00ec tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed7i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb th\u01a1.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i.<\/h5>\n

H\u00e3y thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, t\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb em t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd xem nh\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y! Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho tr\u1ebb, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. H\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho vi\u1ec7c tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb em.<\/h5>\n

Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc n\u00e0y kh\u1ecfi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. H\u00e3y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb em ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb em t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd xem nh\u1eb9 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y! Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00eau gh\u1eb9o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y d\u1eebng ngay nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 g\u1ecdi t\u00ean l\u00f3ng, b\u00ecnh ph\u1ea9m v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh hay so s\u00e1nh tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/h5>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

\"H\u00e3y
H\u00e3y d\u1eebng ngay nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 g\u1ecdi t\u00ean l\u00f3ng, b\u00ecnh ph\u1ea9m v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh hay so s\u00e1nh tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. H\u00e3y h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ngay h\u00f4m nay! M\u1ed7i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady cho tr\u1ebb em xung quanh ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u01b0u \u00fd khi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng tr\u1ebb:<\/strong> L\u1eafng nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n

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  • Khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean:<\/strong> Thay v\u00ec so s\u00e1nh, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung khen ng\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/li>\n
  • Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u:<\/strong> Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. H\u00e3y ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/li>\n
  • T\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n:<\/strong> Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/li>\n
  • T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap:<\/strong> N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap t\u1eeb c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    H\u00e3y chung tay x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n nh\u1ea5t. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u01b0\u1edfi \u1ea5m tr\u00e1i tim tr\u1ebb th\u01a1, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gieo v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng dai d\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p c\u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i? M\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f9a vui, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gieo v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng dai d\u1eb3ng. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec3m qua 4 ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb: 1. Ch\u00ea bai ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh: “Sao con b\u00e9o th\u1ebf?”, “Sao t\u00f3c con ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7n v\u1eady?”, “Sao da con ng\u0103m \u0111en th\u1ebf?” – nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc vui v\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi b\u1ecb ch\u00ea bai ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 thu m\u00ecnh, xa l\u00e1nh giao ti\u1ebfp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n \u0103n u\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd coi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i! Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 “Sao con b\u00e9o th\u1ebf?”, “Sao t\u00f3c con ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7n v\u1eady?”, “Sao da con ng\u0103m \u0111en th\u1ebf?” kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f9a vui. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em. Ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin. Khi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb ch\u00ea bai v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh. H\u00e3y th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em. Thay v\u00ec t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng cho con em ch\u00fang ta. 2. D\u1ecda n\u1ea1t: “Ngoan ngoan kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec tao cho ch\u00f3 c\u1eafn!”, “Kh\u00f4ng \u0103n th\u00ec tao \u0111\u00e1nh!”, “H\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y \u0111i \u0103n m\u00e0y!” – nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f9a vui l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh trong th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. Khi b\u1ecb d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t an to\u00e0n, thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u01b0 lo \u00e2u, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng hung h\u0103ng, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Ngoan ngoan kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec tao cho ch\u00f3 c\u1eafn!”, “Kh\u00f4ng \u0103n th\u00ec tao \u0111\u00e1nh!”, “H\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y \u0111i \u0103n m\u00e0y!” kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111e d\u1ecda nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u1ebb. Khi b\u1ecb d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an, lo s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n lo \u00e2u, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ef1 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Thay v\u00ec d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi \u0111e d\u1ecda, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. H\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ngay nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 tin, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. 3. So s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c: “Sao con kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n A?”, “Sao con h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n B?”, “Sao con ngoan ngo\u00e3n kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n C?” – nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u so s\u00e1nh t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti, thua k\u00e9m v\u00e0 ghen t\u1ecb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi b\u1ecb so s\u00e1nh, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd so s\u00e1nh con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c! \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Sao con kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n A?” hay “Sao con h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n B?” kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t, v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c nhau. So s\u00e1nh ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti, thua k\u00e9m v\u00e0 ghen t\u1ecb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Thay v\u00ec so s\u00e1nh, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t. Ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch so s\u00e1nh c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, n\u01a1i tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 4. \u0110\u00f9a c\u1ee3t v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m: “Sao con t\u00e8 ra qu\u1ea7n?”, “Sao con n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i?”, “Sao con l\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m \u0111\u1ed3?” – nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11667","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-babies"],"yoast_head":"\n4 ki\u1ec3u tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng "h\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng" - 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