{"id":12106,"date":"2024-08-06T13:58:44","date_gmt":"2024-08-06T13:58:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=12106"},"modified":"2024-08-07T01:39:10","modified_gmt":"2024-08-07T01:39:10","slug":"lang-nghe-con-chia-khoa-de-xay-dung-moi-quan-he-tot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/lang-nghe-con-chia-khoa-de-xay-dung-moi-quan-he-tot\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u1eafng Nghe Con: Ch\u00eca Kh\u00f3a \u0110\u1ec3 X\u00e2y D\u1ef1ng M\u1ed1i Quan H\u1ec7 T\u1ed1t"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe con, t\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u01a1i con b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed7i khi ch\u00fang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang n\u00f3i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u1eafng nghe con m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con. Con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/h5>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con n\u00f3i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u \u1ea9n sau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n, n\u01a1i con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf. Con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u con s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, l\u1eafng nghe kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 empathy. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1edbi con, gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

L\u1eafng nghe con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con n\u00f3i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a con. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe con hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u. H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft con, g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u con h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/h5>\n

Khi con bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 coi tr\u1ecdng, con s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho con l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang trao cho con c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng “ba ph\u1ea3i” m\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe con, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/h5>\n

Con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con m\u1edf l\u00f2ng h\u01a1n, chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0 cho con ch\u1ecdn qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o m\u1eb7c \u0111i h\u1ecdc hay m\u00f3n \u0103n cho b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, con s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin v\u1edbi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec7m quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/h5>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh xa th\u00f3i quen “ba ph\u1ea3i” v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c “L\u1eafng Nghe Con” kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Khi cha m\u1eb9 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 do b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n cho con c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a con trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n t\u1eeb ph\u00eda cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c b\u1ecf ra.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cho ph\u00e9p con t\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn trong nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang gi\u00fap b\u00e9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch “ba ph\u1ea3i” m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u00e9 m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do b\u00e0y t\u1ecf.<\/h5>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, gi\u00fap con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn trong c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u00e9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe. Khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 “Con mu\u1ed1n \u0103n b\u00e1nh m\u00ec hay b\u00fan cho b\u1eefa s\u00e1ng?”, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecfi “H\u00f4m nay \u0111i h\u1ecdc con mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb7c \u00e1o m\u00e0u g\u00ec?” gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 “Mu\u1ed1n nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7?” kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc g\u1eafn k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a con, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c cho con n\u00f3i ra s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u00e9, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/h5>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe con, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i qu\u00fd b\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 s\u1edf th\u00edch, \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con y\u00eau th\u00edch. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u con h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng con trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, khi con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch n\u00f3i ra suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap x\u00f3a b\u1ecf r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c c\u1edfi m\u1edf, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0, gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n, hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb c\u00f9ng nhau.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe con, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 n\u00f3i ra suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/h5>\n

\u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng, \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a con, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe con, t\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Thay v\u00ec \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p, h\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

Sau khi con \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u01b0u v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng nhau, t\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m chung. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, t\u1ea1o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e2u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Khi cha m\u1eb9 nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/h5>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang – sai trong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 con r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

L\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch con, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a con. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, mang t\u00ednh c\u1ed5 v\u0169 v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch. Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i “Con l\u00e0m sai r\u1ed3i”, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i “L\u1ea7n sau con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch…”.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 con chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u01a1i con b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed7i khi ch\u00fang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang n\u00f3i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u1eafng nghe con m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con. Con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft. \u2014 L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con n\u00f3i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u \u1ea9n sau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n, n\u01a1i con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf. Con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u con s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, l\u1eafng nghe kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 empathy. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1edbi con, gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u2014 L\u1eafng nghe con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con n\u00f3i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a con. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe con hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u. H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft con, g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. L\u1eafng nghe con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u con h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khi con bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 coi tr\u1ecdng, con s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho con l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang trao cho con c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng “ba ph\u1ea3i” m\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe con, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con m\u1edf l\u00f2ng h\u01a1n, chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0 cho con ch\u1ecdn qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o m\u1eb7c \u0111i h\u1ecdc hay m\u00f3n \u0103n cho b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, con s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin v\u1edbi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec7m quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u2014 Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh xa th\u00f3i quen “ba ph\u1ea3i” v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang. Vi\u1ec7c “L\u1eafng Nghe Con” kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Khi cha m\u1eb9 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 do b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. 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