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B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ni\u1ec1m vui trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang trang b\u1ecb cho con nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/h5>\n
H\u00e3y ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ri\u00eang. C\u00f9ng nhau, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o. H\u00e3y th\u1eed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c khi b\u1ea1n m\u1edf m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o, h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o t\u1ecfa ra, v\u00e0 v\u1ecb ng\u1ecdt tan d\u1ea7n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u l\u01b0\u1ee1i. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1edfng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n sau nh\u1eefng gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n
Th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau, khi m\u1ed7i vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. N\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00f4i khi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua ng\u00e0y t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p hay kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n an \u1ee7i tinh th\u1ea7n, mang l\u1ea1i n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o.<\/h5>\n
Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen \u0103n u\u1ed1ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1n th\u00e8m \u0103n, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 trong tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7.<\/p>\n
Th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, thay v\u00ec c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c k\u1eb9o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n vinh.<\/h5>\n
Khi tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u00eau th\u1ee5, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen \u0103n u\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
Khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ni\u1ec1m vui trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u l\u1edbn lao. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y l\u1ea1i mang \u0111\u1ebfn ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9p k\u1eb9o ngon v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng \u0103n, d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t th\u00e8m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng nh\u1ecf, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u00fd ch\u00ed.<\/p>\n
T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, khi b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb k\u1eb9o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra ni\u1ec1m vui to l\u1edbn, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n.<\/h5>\n
M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n “th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng” trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n vinh. Ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u00edch l\u0169y theo th\u1eddi gian, t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
Khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ni\u1ec1m vui cho con tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/h5>\n
M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p l\u00e0 khi con \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a k\u1eb9o ng\u1ecdt. Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng m\u1eebng khi con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u00f4i k\u00e9o v\u00e0o c\u01a1n c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n
H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, ni\u1ec1m vui c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e2n l\u00ean g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i khi con bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Vi\u1ec7c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb k\u1eb9o v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i \u0111ang h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a con. Khi con n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean anh ch\u1ecb em, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac con \u0111ang gieo nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui khi con v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft s\u1ebb chia. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho con trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n
Khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 k\u1eb9o b\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a con, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang gi\u00fap con x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/h5>\n
Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe m\u00e0 c\u00f2n d\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n
Thay v\u00ec lu\u00f4n th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n m\u1ecdi mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a con, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u00fd ch\u00ed m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t xung quanh, thay v\u00ec ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u00fa vui t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi nh\u01b0 k\u1eb9o b\u00e1nh. Con s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 xung quanh v\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang gi\u00fap con tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/h5>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c cho con \u0103n k\u1eb9o m\u1ed7i khi ch\u00fang \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang d\u1ea1y cho con m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con bu\u1ed3n trong gi\u00e2y l\u00e1t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7.<\/p>\n
Th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe r\u0103ng mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/h5>\n
B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n
Khi con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a con, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang trang b\u1ecb cho con nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y th\u1eed l\u1eafng nghe c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e8m \u0103n n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian. H\u00e3y ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1edfng cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn nh\u1ecf. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong th\u00f3i quen \u0103n u\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n ng\u1ecdt y\u00eau th\u00edch. \u2014 Th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 xoa d\u1ecbu t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e8m \u0103n k\u1eb9o l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u1ed1t. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e8m \u0103n k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u01a1n th\u00e8m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i k\u1eb9o \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y t\u01b0\u01a1i. Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn. Ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a n\u1eb1m \u1edf s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh, hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh th\u00f3i quen \u0103n u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u2014 Th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 xoa d\u1ecbu c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, gi\u1ea3m stress ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e8m \u0103n k\u1eb9o l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u1ed1t. Thay v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i ho\u1eb7c n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nhanh ch\u00f3ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u01a1n th\u00e8m k\u1eb9o. \u0110\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed thay th\u1ebf k\u1eb9o b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y t\u01b0\u01a1i ho\u1eb7c h\u1ea1t dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o m\u00e0 c\u00f2n cung c\u1ea5p nhi\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ea5t h\u01a1n cho c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. H\u00e3y d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng h\u01a1n. L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng mu\u1ed1n mang l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c mua k\u1eb9o ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u1edbi s\u1ebd l\u00e0m con vui. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ti\u00eau th\u1ee5. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean con, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0o. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, nh\u01b0 c\u00f9ng nhau n\u1ea5u \u0103n, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, hay ch\u01a1i c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb. L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho con. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, thay v\u00ec ch\u1ea1y theo xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u00eau d\u00f9ng t\u1ea1m b\u1ee3. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. Khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ham mu\u1ed1n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n. Th\u00f3i quen \u0103n k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Thay v\u00ec c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c. H\u00e3y gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12372","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-preschools"],"yoast_head":"\n