{"id":13580,"date":"2024-11-28T08:51:54","date_gmt":"2024-11-28T08:51:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=13580"},"modified":"2024-11-24T08:57:32","modified_gmt":"2024-11-24T08:57:32","slug":"tinh-yeu-khong-gioi-han-su-bu-dap-thieu-thon-tuoi-tho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/tinh-yeu-khong-gioi-han-su-bu-dap-thieu-thon-tuoi-tho\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau Kh\u00f4ng Gi\u1edbi H\u1ea1n: S\u1ef1 B\u00f9 \u0110\u1eafp Thi\u1ebfu Th\u1ed1n Tu\u1ed5i Th\u01a1"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sigmund Freud, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Theo Freud, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Khi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a Freud, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1c ranh gi\u1edbi truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Freud cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i b\u1edfi ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c. Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u00e2u k\u00edn nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi hay c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a Freud ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 l\u0103ng k\u00ednh Freud s\u1ebd m\u1edf ra m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00fa v\u1ecb cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u00e0 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n.<\/h5>\n

Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Sigmund Freud b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, gi\u00fap kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u0103ng k\u00ednh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1edbi – l\u0103ng k\u00ednh “kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n”.<\/p>\n

Freud cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n. \u00d4ng tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 k\u00fd \u1ee9c b\u1ecb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u1eb1m \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u. Theo Freud, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n”, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0y m\u1edf ra m\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi cho vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. N\u00f3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. Khi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n – m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean, h\u00e3y th\u1eed nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u00e9!<\/h5>\n

Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 th\u00fa v\u1ecb t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea7y s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o n\u00e0y!<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb thu\u1edf b\u00e9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng may m\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n trong tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00e2m th\u1ea7m \u0111eo b\u00e1m ch\u00fang ta su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00f3a nh\u00f2a.<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean con tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng khao kh\u00e1t nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t cho c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 l\u1eabn con c\u00e1i?<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tham v\u1ecdng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n?<\/h5>\n

Thay v\u00ec \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c con c\u00e1i theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u1ef1 do kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 hay \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/h5>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au khi nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00e2m \u1ec9, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh theo su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean con c\u00e1i, v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng ch\u00fang s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u1eebng kh\u00e1t khao. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n khi tr\u1ebb em b\u1ecb coi nh\u01b0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, thay v\u00ec ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 do theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea ri\u00eang.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi “kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n” n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

Tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian qu\u00fd b\u00e1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i qua, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. N\u1ed7i \u0111au t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n trong tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ee9 \u00e2m \u1ec9 v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean con c\u00e1i, bi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u00f2n dang d\u1edf.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng Gi\u1edbi H\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng l\u00ean con c\u00e1i.<\/h5>\n

H\u1ecd mong mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng khao kh\u00e1t nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn cho tr\u1ebb em, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb g\u00f2 b\u00f3 v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang n\u00f3. Thay v\u00ec \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c con c\u00e1i theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang, h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c em ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1i \u0111a trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng Kh\u00f4ng Gi\u1edbi H\u1ea1n \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u2013 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, “h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng suy ng\u1eabm. N\u00f3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t d\u1ec5 th\u1ea5y trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con.<\/p>\n

D\u00f9 r\u1eb1ng ai c\u0169ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u y\u00eau con m\u00ecnh v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/h5>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00ean con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t \u0111i r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u1eabn nhau.<\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 “h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng” gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 lu\u00f4n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n!<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef “h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng” th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau nh\u1ea5t.<\/h5>\n

Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra trong nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 b\u1edd b\u1ebfn d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh ho\u1eb7c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac, v\u00ec qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng hay b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 do.<\/p>\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, “kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh.<\/h5>\n

Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 “kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n” gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sao cho v\u1eeba gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi con m\u00e0 v\u1eabn khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng”, \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111o\u1ea1t v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau nh\u1ea5t.<\/h5>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 m\u1ecdi b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u y\u00eau con m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho ch\u00fang. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng “kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n” trong vi\u1ec7c can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra ranh gi\u1edbi gi\u1eefa h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n.<\/h5>\n

Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 l\u1eabn con c\u00e1i, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u1eabn nhau.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a chuy\u00ean gia gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c D\u01b0 Duy\u1ebfn Ch\u00e2u \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e9 l\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/h5>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 100% tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 “l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00ec m\u00ecnh”, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i?<\/p>\n

Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, khi m\u00e0 c\u00e1c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho con c\u00e1i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 do kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/h5>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trao cho ch\u00fang c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh t\u1eb7ng cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a chuy\u00ean gia gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c D\u01b0 Duy\u1ebfn Ch\u00e2u \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/h5>\n

K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cho th\u1ea5y, d\u00f9 100% tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 b\u1edd b\u1ebfn t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 qua vi\u1ec7c “l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00ec m\u00ecnh”, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00e1c em c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111ang g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb?<\/p>\n

Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c em ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1i \u0111a ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng con c\u00e1i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng, h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho con t\u1ef1 do tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh.<\/h5>\n
\"Trong
Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c em ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1i \u0111a ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p con c\u00e1i t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch \u1ee9ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

D\u01b0 Duy\u1ebfn Ch\u00e2u, m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c, \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1edbi h\u1ecdc sinh ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 trung h\u1ecdc.<\/h5>\n

K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd khi 100% tr\u1ebb em tham gia \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n “l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00ec m\u00ecnh”. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn trong s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c em l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh hay kh\u00f4ng? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c hay c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay?<\/p>\n

Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhanh ch\u00f3ng, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 linh ho\u1ea1t h\u01a1n c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng “gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n” v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh t\u1eeb ph\u00eda ph\u1ee5 huynh.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sigmund Freud, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Theo Freud, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Khi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a Freud, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1c ranh gi\u1edbi truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng. Freud cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i b\u1edfi ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c. Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u00e2u k\u00edn nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi hay c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a Freud ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u00ean trong. Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 l\u0103ng k\u00ednh Freud s\u1ebd m\u1edf ra m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00fa v\u1ecb cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. \u2014 Khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u00e0 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Sigmund Freud b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, gi\u00fap kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u0103ng k\u00ednh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1edbi – l\u0103ng k\u00ednh “kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n”. Freud cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n. \u00d4ng tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 k\u00fd \u1ee9c b\u1ecb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u1eb1m \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u. Theo Freud, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n”, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0y m\u1edf ra m\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi cho vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. N\u00f3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. Khi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n – m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c n\u00e0o. V\u1eady n\u00ean, h\u00e3y th\u1eed nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u00e9! Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 th\u00fa v\u1ecb t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea7y s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o n\u00e0y! Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb thu\u1edf b\u00e9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng may m\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n trong tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00e2m th\u1ea7m \u0111eo b\u00e1m ch\u00fang ta su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00f3a nh\u00f2a. Khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean con tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng khao kh\u00e1t nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t cho c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 l\u1eabn con c\u00e1i? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tham v\u1ecdng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n? Thay v\u00ec \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c con c\u00e1i theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u1ef1 do kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 hay \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. \u2014 Tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au khi nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n. 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