{"id":13825,"date":"2024-12-18T03:01:44","date_gmt":"2024-12-18T03:01:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=13825"},"modified":"2024-12-18T03:01:44","modified_gmt":"2024-12-18T03:01:44","slug":"sai-lam-pho-bien-cua-phu-huynh-khi-hoi-tham-con-cai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/sai-lam-pho-bien-cua-phu-huynh-khi-hoi-tham-con-cai\/","title":{"rendered":"Sai L\u1ea7m Ph\u1ed5 Bi\u1ebfn C\u1ee7a Ph\u1ee5 Huynh Khi H\u1ecfi Th\u0103m Con C\u00e1i"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfp thu ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ho\u1eb7c \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, ch\u00fang d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u1eafng nghe. Thay v\u00ec t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch, c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean tr\u1ebb em, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang. Tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n thu nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn; ch\u00fang c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, ch\u01b0a b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hay \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa hai th\u1ebf h\u1ec7.<\/h5>\n

Thay v\u00ec \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe con c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y m\u1edf l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1eeb con c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111a d\u1ea1ng xung quanh ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00ean tr\u1ebb em, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang. Thay v\u00ec \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ch\u00fang ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn r\u1ea5t m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd do \u0111\u1eb1ng sau suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3.<\/h5>\n

H\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi l\u1eabn nhau v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. D\u00f9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng xem nh\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y, th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: “Chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0, sao con ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n?” hay “Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i m\u00e0 c\u0169ng gi\u1eadn sao?”.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c xem nh\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/h5>\n

Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. Khi cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf qua ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con, h\u1ecd v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00ec coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec tr\u1ebb \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua, ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n. Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i chia s\u1ebb suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ebd gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh cho tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

M\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, d\u00f9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd. Khi tr\u1ebb b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, thay v\u00ec l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: “Chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0, sao con ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n?” hay “Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i m\u00e0 c\u0169ng gi\u1eadn sao?”.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u1ea1i g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m suy gi\u1ea3m m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/h5>\n

Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00ean t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb coi nh\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Con \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n n\u1eefa” hay “Chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 g\u00ec to t\u00e1t” t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i mang \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Khi nghe nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 kh\u00e9p k\u00edn v\u00e0 ng\u1ea1i chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/h5>\n

Vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1edf gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Thay v\u00ec d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u con c\u00e1i h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1eabn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn trong c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb coi nh\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc cho t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb th\u01a1. Khi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i n\u00e0y b\u1ecb l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e9p k\u00edn v\u00e0 ng\u1ea1i chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 “Con \u0111\u1eebng kh\u00f3c n\u1eefa” hay “C\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n”. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua. Thay v\u00ec gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng th\u00eam s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t an v\u00e0 xa c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, so s\u00e1nh con v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p.<\/h5>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Sao con kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng anh\/ch\u1ecb\/em” c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn l\u00ean tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Vi\u1ec7c li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu thay v\u00ec khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean ch\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Khi tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng xoa d\u1ecbu b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng “kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n” hay “m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd \u1ed5n th\u00f4i”.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u.<\/h5>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con. Khi con bu\u1ed3n, h\u00e3y th\u1eed thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ch\u00fang: “M\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u con \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n. Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng?” C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1edf ra c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb gi\u00e3i b\u00e0y t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 gi\u00e0u l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i khi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con. Thay v\u00ec l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Khi tr\u1ebb bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, thay v\u00ec v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng b\u00e1c b\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Con \u0111\u1eebng bu\u1ed3n n\u1eefa” hay “Chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n: “M\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u con \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n. Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb m\u1edf l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/h5>\n

Sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con trong m\u1ecdi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.<\/h5>\n

Thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

\"M\u1ed9t
M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Khi con b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed3n, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua. Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 “\u0110\u1eebng kh\u00f3c n\u1eefa” hay “C\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn kh\u00e1c: “M\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u con \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n. Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng?” C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m m\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u1edf ra c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n, bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e9p k\u00edn h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc h\u01a1n.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfp thu ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng. Khi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ho\u1eb7c \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, ch\u00fang d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u1eafng nghe. Thay v\u00ec t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch, c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean tr\u1ebb em, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang. Tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n thu nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn; ch\u00fang c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, ch\u01b0a b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hay \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa hai th\u1ebf h\u1ec7. Thay v\u00ec \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe con c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y m\u1edf l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1eeb con c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111a d\u1ea1ng xung quanh ch\u00fang ta. \u2014 M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00ean tr\u1ebb em, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang. Thay v\u00ec \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ch\u00fang ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn r\u1ea5t m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd do \u0111\u1eb1ng sau suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi l\u1eabn nhau v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. D\u00f9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng xem nh\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y, th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: “Chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0, sao con ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n?” hay “Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i m\u00e0 c\u0169ng gi\u1eadn sao?”. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. Vi\u1ec7c xem nh\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. Khi cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf qua ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con, h\u1ecd v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Do \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00ec coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec tr\u1ebb \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua, ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n. Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i chia s\u1ebb suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ebd gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh cho tr\u1ebb. \u2014 M\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, d\u00f9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd. 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