{"id":13910,"date":"2024-12-25T09:40:07","date_gmt":"2024-12-25T09:40:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=13910"},"modified":"2024-12-25T09:40:07","modified_gmt":"2024-12-25T09:40:07","slug":"khen-ngoi-tre-khi-lam-tot-cach-xay-dung-tich-cuc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/khen-ngoi-tre-khi-lam-tot-cach-xay-dung-tich-cuc\/","title":{"rendered":"Khen Ng\u1ee3i Tr\u1ebb Khi L\u00e0m T\u1ed1t: C\u00e1ch X\u00e2y D\u1ef1ng T\u00edch C\u1ef1c"},"content":{"rendered":"

Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi con em m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Khi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i “Con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1!”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u00e0i to\u00e1n kh\u00f3 n\u00e0y”. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00eam.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi khen m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Khi ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho c\u00e1c b\u00e9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 “Con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm!” khi tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ee3i sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1eebng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/h5>\n

H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra v\u00e0 khen ng\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau – c\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u1eabn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Khi khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, ch\u00fang ta gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u00e9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 “Con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t!” hay “M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9!”, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c.<\/h5>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. V\u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/h5>\n

Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con, nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen chung chung nh\u01b0 “Con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn x\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh h\u00f4m nay”. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con, nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau, c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb khi ch\u00fang l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 trong c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

Khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn xung quanh m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 ghi nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 khen ng\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con. Khi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong m\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf l\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3.<\/h5>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 hay \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u00f4m th\u1eadt ch\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t huy \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf khi con ch\u01b0a thay \u0111\u1ed5i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 linh ho\u1ea1t. Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01a1n trong m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c. Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh l\u1eddi khen ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ri\u00eang, v\u00ec v\u1eady \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a th\u1ea5y k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/h5>\n

Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean khen ng\u1ee3i con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin cho tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t “l\u00e1 ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i” m\u00e0 \u00edt ai ng\u1edd t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Khi cha m\u1eb9 khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb sai l\u1ea7m, tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m ch\u0103m v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen.<\/h5>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 n\u00f3i “Con gi\u1ecfi l\u1eafm!”, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi khen. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua h\u01a1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: “M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng trong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp n\u00e0y” hay “B\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con ki\u00ean tr\u00ec gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1”.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eb1m \u1edf s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1eed th\u00e1ch ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u1edf k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/h5>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng khen ng\u1ee3i con c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean ch\u00fang. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t “l\u00e1 ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i”?<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u1ebb li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen nh\u01b0 “Con th\u1eadt th\u00f4ng minh” hay “Con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm”, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u cao h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ecb bao ph\u1ee7 b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng, tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng v\u00ec s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/h5>\n

Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y th\u1eed chuy\u1ec3n sang vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i “Con v\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb9p qu\u00e1”, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t th\u00edch c\u00e1ch con ch\u1ecdn m\u00e0u s\u1eafc cho b\u1ee9c tranh n\u00e0y”.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ee3i, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy ph\u1ea3n bi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng khi khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp “l\u00e1 ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i” nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con c\u00e1i khi nghe th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u1eddi g\u00f3p \u00fd n\u00e0o t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/h5>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c con m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, d\u00f9 ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang hay sai.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda con m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n. Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m ch\u0103m b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00f3p \u00fd mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng.<\/h5>\n

Qua \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n trong suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00eanh con m\u1ecdi l\u00fac m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i, d\u00f9 con \u0111\u00fang hay sai, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ebfm g\u1eb7p. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con c\u00e1i kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

Khi cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa sai l\u1ea7m.<\/h5>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

Khen ng\u1ee3i n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 che \u0111\u1eady nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec “s\u1ed3n s\u1ed3n” b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, h\u00e3y th\u1eed b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap t\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi con em m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Khi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i “Con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1!”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u00e0i to\u00e1n kh\u00f3 n\u00e0y”. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00eam. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi khen m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u2014 Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Khi ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho c\u00e1c b\u00e9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 “Con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm!” khi tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ee3i sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1eebng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra v\u00e0 khen ng\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. \u2014 Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau – c\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u1eabn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Khi khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, ch\u00fang ta gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u00e9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 “Con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t!” hay “M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9!”, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. V\u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con, nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb. Khi b\u1ea1n khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen chung chung nh\u01b0 “Con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn x\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh h\u00f4m nay”. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u2014 M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con, nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau, c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb khi ch\u00fang l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. 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Khi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i “Con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1!”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u00e0i to\u00e1n kh\u00f3 n\u00e0y”. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00eam. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi khen m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u2014 Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Khi ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho c\u00e1c b\u00e9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 “Con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm!” khi tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ee3i sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1eebng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra v\u00e0 khen ng\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. \u2014 Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau – c\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u1eabn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Khi khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, ch\u00fang ta gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u00e9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 “Con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t!” hay “M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9!”, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. V\u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con, nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb. Khi b\u1ea1n khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen chung chung nh\u01b0 “Con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn x\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh h\u00f4m nay”. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u2014 M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo. 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Khi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i “Con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1!”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u00e0i to\u00e1n kh\u00f3 n\u00e0y”. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00eam. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi khen m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u2014 Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Khi ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho c\u00e1c b\u00e9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 “Con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm!” khi tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ee3i sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1eebng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra v\u00e0 khen ng\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. \u2014 Khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau – c\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u1eabn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Khi khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, ch\u00fang ta gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u00e9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 “Con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t!” hay “M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9!”, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. V\u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i mang t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con, nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb. Khi b\u1ea1n khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen chung chung nh\u01b0 “Con gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i “M\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch con ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn x\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh h\u00f4m nay”. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u2014 M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng noi theo. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con, nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau, c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb khi ch\u00fang l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. 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