{"id":14816,"date":"2025-03-08T10:49:47","date_gmt":"2025-03-08T10:49:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=14816"},"modified":"2025-03-06T10:55:49","modified_gmt":"2025-03-06T10:55:49","slug":"4-cau-noi-xu-ly-khi-con-cai-nhem-nhem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/4-cau-noi-xu-ly-khi-con-cai-nhem-nhem\/","title":{"rendered":"4 C\u00e2u N\u00f3i X\u1eed L\u00fd Khi Con “C\u00e3i Nhem Nh\u1ebbm”"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm” \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, li\u1ec7u vi\u1ec7c l\u00fd lu\u1eadn gay g\u1eaft hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i?<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00e3i nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng.<\/h5>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean, thay v\u00ec “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed h\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. L\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi kh\u00fac m\u1eafc trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng!<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm”, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ra sao. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn hay c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u00fang sai trong l\u00fac c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, h\u00e3y th\u1eed l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe con.<\/h5>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap h\u1ea1 nhi\u1ec7t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng khoan dung lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

Khi con tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, thay v\u00ec tranh lu\u1eadn hay n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

1. “Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho m\u1eb9\/b\u1ed1 t\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng?” – C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/h5>\n

2. “M\u1eb9\/b\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c nhau.” – B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

3. “Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p nh\u00e9?” – \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con tham gia v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch hay ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

4. “M\u1eb9\/b\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o khi th\u1ea5y con tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n qua t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y.” – L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/h5>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng uy quy\u1ec1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

Khi con tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng hay m\u1eafng m\u1ecf. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 con c\u1ea7n giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n.<\/h5>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi g\u1ee3i \u00fd cho con nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t kh\u00e1c thay v\u00ec c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm. Qua \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Khi con b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn ra h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i: “M\u1eb9\/Ba hi\u1ec3u con \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch con \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.” C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u00e1nh m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn leo thang v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Khi c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn duy nh\u1ea5t, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng con tr\u1ebb c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm. Thay v\u00ec n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn hay \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n m\u00e0 v\u1eabn hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3: s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u00e1nh xung \u0111\u1ed9t leo thang m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi con c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, thay v\u00ec qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf: “M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m nhau \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.”<\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u1edf l\u00f2ng h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/h5>\n

Qua th\u1eddi gian, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 h\u01a1n trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh con c\u00e1i c\u00e3i l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00fang. Th\u1eadt ra, vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. Khi c\u00e1c con “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm” m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe hay t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i quen thu\u1ed9c trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0: “T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda.”<\/h5>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u con c\u00e1i h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u00e1c con c\u00e1ch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y con c\u00e1i c\u00e3i l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm” v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i “s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng cho c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/h5>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm” khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, thay v\u00ec qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng hay tranh lu\u1eadn gay g\u1eaft, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf con v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau.<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1eeb hai ph\u00eda, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t hay c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y th\u1eed d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng con, chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u00edch trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/h5>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm” khi\u1ebfn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, thay v\u00ec qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng hay tranh lu\u1eadn c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd. Khi con tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1eeb hai ph\u00eda, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y th\u1eed h\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.<\/h5>\n

Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

Khi con tr\u1ebb c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. Thay v\u00ec gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0, khi tr\u1ebb con c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9. Thay v\u00ec n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng hay \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, h\u00e3y th\u1eed d\u00e0nh ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd do \u0111\u1eb1ng sau h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1edf v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n khi chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb la m\u1eafng.<\/h5>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm” m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i trong d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Khi con c\u00e1i c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng hay ph\u1ea1t con ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/h5>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do tr\u1ebb \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe con s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch hay \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y th\u1eed \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Khi th\u1ea5y con c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/h5>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u01b0 x\u1eed b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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Khi th\u1ea5y con c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Thay v\u00ec n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u1eed ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed7i sai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em \u0111ang trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i hay c\u00e3i l\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch cha m\u1eb9 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm” \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, li\u1ec7u vi\u1ec7c l\u00fd lu\u1eadn gay g\u1eaft hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i? Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00e3i nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn m\u1edbi. V\u1eady n\u00ean, thay v\u00ec “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed h\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. L\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi kh\u00fac m\u1eafc trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng! Khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i “c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm”, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ra sao. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean. Thay v\u00ec n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn hay c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u00fang sai trong l\u00fac c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, h\u00e3y th\u1eed l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe con. \u0110\u00f4i khi, tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap h\u1ea1 nhi\u1ec7t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng khoan dung lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh nh\u00e9! Khi con tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, thay v\u00ec tranh lu\u1eadn hay n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 1. “Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho m\u1eb9\/b\u1ed1 t\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng?” – C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. 2. “M\u1eb9\/b\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c nhau.” – B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. 3. “Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p nh\u00e9?” – \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con tham gia v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch hay ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. 4. “M\u1eb9\/b\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o khi th\u1ea5y con tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n qua t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y.” – L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng uy quy\u1ec1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi con tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng hay m\u1eafng m\u1ecf. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 con c\u1ea7n giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. H\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi g\u1ee3i \u00fd cho con nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t kh\u00e1c thay v\u00ec c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm. Qua \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc h\u01a1n. Khi con b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e3i nhem nh\u1ebbm, \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn ra h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i: “M\u1eb9\/Ba hi\u1ec3u con \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch con \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.” C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u00e1nh m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn leo thang v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. 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