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\u2014<\/p>\n
Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec7m cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Khi ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi suy ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u1ed5 \u00edch.<\/h5>\n
N\u00f3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, l\u00f2ng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3. Thay v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i hay x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 qua, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. H\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u00fang. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho b\u1ea1n, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn con th\u00eam s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u mang theo m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u n\u1ebfu con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Khi con g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y.<\/h5>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh xem x\u00e9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: “\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y? Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c \u0111i trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai?” Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con t\u00ecm ra nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 r\u00fat ra nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u1eefu \u00edch.<\/p>\n
H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch m\u1edbi. Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ecdi v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd n\u1ebfu con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebfn \u0111au bu\u1ed3n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Con s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, qua th\u1eddi gian, ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u1ea5y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh n\u00ean m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ai c\u0169ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8.<\/h5>\n
Khi con g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 an \u1ee7i con b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng s\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 l\u00fac \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3. \u0110\u00f4i khi, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n
Cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 con nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 qua.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n lu\u00f4n \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, gi\u00fap con v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n
Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay th\u1ea7y c\u00f4.<\/h5>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai. Khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c con ho\u1eb7c tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra: “\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u00e0y? Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh?” B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho tr\u1ebb, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c em tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/h5>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta d\u1ea1y con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Thay v\u00ec che ch\u1edf qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, h\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. D\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u00e1c em ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng l\u00f2ng bao dung \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng sai l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3. Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, h\u00e3y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00e1c em s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean l\u1edbn lao nh\u1ea5t cho con c\u00e1i tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng l\u00fac v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/h5>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. Khi d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, thay v\u00ec b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi sai l\u1ea7m, h\u00e3y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng l\u00f2ng bao dung v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
Qua vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh trang qu\u00fd b\u00e1u m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao cho con tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng thi\u1ebfu kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u1ebb x\u1ea5u l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng.<\/h5>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u1edbn cho cha m\u1eb9 trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Khi tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n, thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch hay la m\u1eafng, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 con hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng con, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy ph\u1ea3n bi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1u mang \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. Khi tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u00edt b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/h5>\n
### Tr\u1ebb Em Thi\u1ebfu Kinh Nghi\u1ec7m V\u00e0 D\u1ec5 B\u1ecb K\u1ebb X\u1ea5u L\u1ee3i D\u1ee5ng: Cha M\u1eb9 C\u1ea7n Gi\u00fap Con Nh\u1eadn Di\u1ec7n C\u00e1c T\u00ecnh Hu\u1ed1ng Nguy Hi\u1ec3m<\/p>\n
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m m\u00e0 c\u00e1c em ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh x\u1eed l\u00fd. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap con nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng nguy c\u01a1 ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho con bi\u1ebft h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Khi tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd, thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch hay tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.<\/h5>\n
H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 cho nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n sau. Qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy ph\u1ea3n bi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda.<\/p>\n
B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1edfi m\u1edf c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng hay kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 c\u00e1c em g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng tin gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n khi c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn t\u1eadn t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111ang r\u00ecnh r\u1eadp ngo\u00e0i kia.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh g\u1ee5c m\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd coi n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00e2m huy\u1ebft. Th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn m\u1edbi. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n; c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3 m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai. H\u00e3y d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u2014 Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng qu\u00fd b\u00e1u gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Khi nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u00e1nh l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda cho s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. H\u1ecd chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng sau n\u00e0y. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1eed th\u00e1ch hay v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3; h\u00e3y coi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n. \u2014 Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec7m cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Khi ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi suy ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u1ed5 \u00edch. N\u00f3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, l\u00f2ng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3. Thay v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i hay x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 qua, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. H\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u00fang. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho b\u1ea1n, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn con th\u00eam s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u mang theo m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u n\u1ebfu con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Khi con g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh xem x\u00e9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: “\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y? Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c \u0111i trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai?” Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con t\u00ecm ra nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 r\u00fat ra nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u1eefu \u00edch. H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch m\u1edbi. Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ecdi v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd n\u1ebfu con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebfn \u0111au bu\u1ed3n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Con s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, qua th\u1eddi gian, ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u1ea5y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh n\u00ean m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. \u2014 Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ai c\u0169ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Khi con g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 an \u1ee7i con b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng s\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 l\u00fac \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15084","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-toddlers"],"yoast_head":"\n