{"id":15253,"date":"2025-04-13T04:33:30","date_gmt":"2025-04-13T04:33:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=15253"},"modified":"2025-04-13T05:11:32","modified_gmt":"2025-04-13T05:11:32","slug":"hay-de-tre-em-the-hien-cam-xuc-bai-hoc-tu-nguoi-lon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/hay-de-tre-em-the-hien-cam-xuc-bai-hoc-tu-nguoi-lon\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u00e3y \u0110\u1ec3 Tr\u1ebb Em Th\u1ec3 Hi\u1ec7n C\u1ea3m X\u00fac: B\u00e0i H\u1ecdc T\u1eeb Ng\u01b0\u1eddi L\u1edbn"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “b\u1ecb thu\u1ea7n ho\u00e1” – nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng theo k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi k\u1ecbch, b\u1edfi v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 t\u1eeb s\u1edbm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 do t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ch\u00fang d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p hay \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch cho tr\u1ebb em th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Khi c\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c em t\u1ef1 do tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec b\u1ecb b\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn lao v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i.<\/h5>\n

Vi\u1ec7c hy sinh nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng mong m\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ebfm g\u1eb7p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb7t mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean tr\u00ean ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, l\u00e2u d\u1ea7n s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau.<\/h5>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Hy sinh nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u0103n. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m ho\u1eb7c \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t cho con c\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng l\u00ean vai con tr\u1ebb.<\/h5>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u1edf ra c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nhau. \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng nhau v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

B.F. Skinner, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng th\u00f4ng qua h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean “ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n”.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/h5>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1nh l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00f4ng qua l\u00f2ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lo s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 hay tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t.<\/h5>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

B.F. Skinner, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00f4ng qua h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t v\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3. Theo \u00f4ng, khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c do h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a “ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n” – m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m quan tr\u1ecdng trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc.<\/h5>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua. Khi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a h\u01a1n cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ho\u1eb7c la m\u1eafng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/h5>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd ngoan ngo\u00e3n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00edch t\u1ee5 th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m sau n\u00e0y. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con c\u00e1i chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe ch\u0103m ch\u00fa v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n.<\/h5>\n

Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa \u0111\u1eb1ng sau n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft m\u00e0 c\u00f2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o gu\u1ed3ng quay c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/h5>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

Khi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u1ecb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c k\u00ecm n\u00e9n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc vung l\u00ean tr\u00ean n\u1ed3i n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00f4i. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u01b0ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn chi\u1ebfc vung b\u1eadt tung ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y ra c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng cho c\u01a1 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n l\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.<\/h5>\n

D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng y\u00eau th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c chia s\u1ebb suy ngh\u0129 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch “Nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc”, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o ch\u1ec9 ra m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y quen thu\u1ed9c.<\/h5>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y m\u00e0 c\u00f2n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. \u0110\u00f4i khi, vi\u1ec7c k\u1ec3 \u0111i k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng qua \u0111\u00f3, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean hay gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau.<\/h5>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh l\u00e0 khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb m\u1eb9 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ho\u1eb7c ph\u1edbt l\u1edd. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n k\u00ecm n\u00e9n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n trong giao ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u00f3 phai m\u1edd.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/h5>\n

Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean e d\u00e8, lo l\u1eafng khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Do \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb m\u1ecdi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lo s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay b\u00e1c b\u1ecf.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. Khi cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.<\/h5>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac do s\u1ef1 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecb ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ho\u1eb7c ph\u1edbt l\u1edd, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch che gi\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Qua th\u1eddi gian, nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n l\u1edbn trong vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con c\u00e1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/h5>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n n\u01a1i tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay b\u00e1c b\u1ecf.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con c\u00e1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/figcaption><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “b\u1ecb thu\u1ea7n ho\u00e1” – nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng theo k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi k\u1ecbch, b\u1edfi v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 t\u1eeb s\u1edbm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 do t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ch\u00fang d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p hay \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em. Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch cho tr\u1ebb em th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Khi c\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c em t\u1ef1 do tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec b\u1ecb b\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn lao v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i. Vi\u1ec7c hy sinh nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng mong m\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ebfm g\u1eb7p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m. Khi ch\u00fang ta li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb7t mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean tr\u00ean ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, l\u00e2u d\u1ea7n s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau. \u2014 Hy sinh nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u0103n. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m ho\u1eb7c \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t cho con c\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng l\u00ean vai con tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u1edf ra c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nhau. \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng nhau v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n. B.F. Skinner, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng th\u00f4ng qua h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean “ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n”. Khi ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1nh l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00f4ng qua l\u00f2ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m. Khi ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lo s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 hay tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. \u2014 B.F. Skinner, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00f4ng qua h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t v\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3. 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