{"id":4239,"date":"2023-02-22T07:22:00","date_gmt":"2023-02-22T07:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=4239"},"modified":"2023-02-17T07:38:08","modified_gmt":"2023-02-17T07:38:08","slug":"5-dieu-cha-me-khong-bao-gio-nen-noi-voi-con-cai-va-tai-sao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/5-dieu-cha-me-khong-bao-gio-nen-noi-voi-con-cai-va-tai-sao\/","title":{"rendered":"5 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. “Con th\u1eadt ngu ng\u1ed1c\/V\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng\/V\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb”<\/h3>\n

C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con \u201cngu ng\u1ed1c, v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch khi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y, cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn. N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Ngo\u00e0i ra, tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 thi\u1ec1n ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ebft nh\u1eadt k\u00fd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap chuy\u1ec3n suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c sang t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3
C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch khi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y, cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

2. “N\u1ebfu Con Kh\u00f4ng Nghe m\u1eb9 B\u00e2y Gi\u1edd con S\u1ebd H\u1ed1i H\u1eadn Sau N\u00e0y”<\/h3>\n

“N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe t\u00f4i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 sau” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y mang m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 sau. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra. L\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u00e1nh ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

\u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, sau n\u00e0y con s\u1ebd h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/h5>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean xem nh\u1eb9, v\u00ec n\u00f3 g\u1ee3i \u00fd r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. L\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

3. “Anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a con t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n con”<\/h3>\n

Th\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea9m sinh h\u01a1n, \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 cao h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

\u201cAnh ch\u1ecb h\u01a1n em\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/h5>\n

Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, th\u1ec3 thao hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh so s\u00e1nh th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb em m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1eefa l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

4. “M\u1eb9 Lu\u00f4n \u0110\u00fang V\u00e0 con Lu\u00f4n Sai”<\/h3>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i “M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 con lu\u00f4n sai”. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang?<\/p>\n

N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng v\u1eady. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u1ea3 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sai, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a nhau. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb “M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 con lu\u00f4n sai” \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m.<\/h5>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi con. C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y nay c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00ec n\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cM\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 con lu\u00f4n sai\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn t\u1eeb bao \u0111\u1eddi nay.<\/h5>\n

N\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf tr\u1ebb em nghe l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ec1n h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u1eef c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch kh\u00e1c nhau trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

5. “\u0110\u1eebng lo l\u1eafng m\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb”<\/h3>\n

\u201c\u0110\u1eebng lo l\u1eafng, h\u00e3y vui v\u1ebb\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i h\u00e0ng th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y nay. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n, c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u1ea5n \u00e1t ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra ti\u1ebfp theo; ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian trong ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 vui ch\u01a1i!<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

“\u0110\u1eebng lo l\u1eafng, h\u00e3y vui v\u1ebb” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ed1ng theo.<\/h5>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nh\u1ecf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n, vui v\u1ebb v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui thay v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra xung quanh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd nghe c\u00e2u \u201c\u0110\u1eebng lo, h\u00e3y vui l\u00ean\u201d ch\u01b0a?<\/h5>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1m g\u00e1c l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui.<\/p>\n

\u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y l\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian vui v\u1ebb. Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3m c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cung c\u1ea5p c\u00e1c m\u1eb9o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

5 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i<\/h3>\n

L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho con b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

Bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec n\u00ean n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i<\/h3>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m to l\u1edbn l\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb h\u1ecd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con h\u1ecd. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u1eedi \u0111i khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p cho con c\u00e1i nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u #1: “\u0110\u1eebng kh\u00f3c n\u1eefa!” – L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu<\/h3>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ranh gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 “ng\u1eebng kh\u00f3c!” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, t\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 2: “con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec” – n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang<\/h3>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i truy\u1ec1n cho con c\u00e1i ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean cung c\u1ea5p cho h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 l\u1edbn hay nh\u1ecf. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng n\u00ean nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n m\u00e0 n\u00ean coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111am m\u00ea nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con c\u00e1i theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/h5>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n cho h\u1ecd ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ch\u00fang n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng n\u00ean nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd nghe nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y cho con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 tin \u1edf ch\u00fang, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

1. “Con th\u1eadt ngu ng\u1ed1c\/V\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng\/V\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb” C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con \u201cngu ng\u1ed1c, v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch khi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y, cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn. N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Ngo\u00e0i ra, tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 thi\u1ec1n ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ebft nh\u1eadt k\u00fd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap chuy\u1ec3n suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c sang t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. 2. “N\u1ebfu Con Kh\u00f4ng Nghe m\u1eb9 B\u00e2y Gi\u1edd con S\u1ebd H\u1ed1i H\u1eadn Sau N\u00e0y” “N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe t\u00f4i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 sau” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y mang m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 sau. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra. L\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u00e1nh ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. \u2014 \u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, sau n\u00e0y con s\u1ebd h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean xem nh\u1eb9, v\u00ec n\u00f3 g\u1ee3i \u00fd r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. L\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. 3. “Anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a con t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n con” Th\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea9m sinh h\u01a1n, \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 cao h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9. Thay v\u00ec so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau. \u2014 \u201cAnh ch\u1ecb h\u01a1n em\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn. Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, th\u1ec3 thao hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh so s\u00e1nh th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb em m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1eefa l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. 4. “M\u1eb9 Lu\u00f4n \u0110\u00fang V\u00e0 con Lu\u00f4n Sai” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i “M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 con lu\u00f4n sai”. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng v\u1eady. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u1ea3 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sai, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a nhau. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u2014 C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb “M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 con lu\u00f4n sai” \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi con. C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi. 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