{"id":4464,"date":"2023-03-09T07:51:25","date_gmt":"2023-03-09T07:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/?p=4464"},"modified":"2023-03-04T08:01:03","modified_gmt":"2023-03-04T08:01:03","slug":"anh-huong-tam-ly-cua-viec-ly-hon-voi-tre-em-la-gi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/en\/anh-huong-tam-ly-cua-viec-ly-hon-voi-tre-em-la-gi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 g\u00ec?"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb khi ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 g\u00ec?”<\/h3>\n

Con c\u00e1i trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh xung quanh v\u1ee5 ly h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e2y c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean quan. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb coi vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 sau khi chia tay trong khi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n

“Nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7.”<\/h3>\n

Nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7. \u1ede M\u1ef9, c\u1ee9 ba gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi ly h\u00f4n v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh c\u00f3 h\u01a1n 40% tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua ly h\u00f4n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang 18 tu\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em trong c\u00e1c h\u1ed9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 ly th\u00e2n. Tr\u1ebb em c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng tin, l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i sau khi ly h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n

Ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng to l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi to\u00e0n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i – t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ma t\u00fay v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m gia t\u0103ng.<\/p>\n

“M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n?”<\/h3>\n

Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n g\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua.<\/p>\n

“Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh.”<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho c\u00e1c con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ed9c l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

“Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi cha m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n?”<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 ch\u00fang b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd xem x\u00e9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c ly th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi ly h\u00f4n, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Ly h\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o.<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c ly h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n cho con.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, Sarah, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n cho tr\u1ebb em t\u1eeb n\u0103m 16 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a hai c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 26. C\u00f4 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f4 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i” m\u00e0 c\u00f4 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m. c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian cho con g\u00e1i d\u00f9 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang \u0111ang b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd do b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n

Sarah nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u1ecdt s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00f4 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 mua k\u1eb9o cho ch\u00fang khi ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t \u1edf nh\u00e0, \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a Sarah.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/h3>\n

N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe sau khi ly h\u00f4n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c n\u00e0o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169 ho\u1eb7c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft con kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u may m\u1eafn v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe.<\/p>\n

Ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng xa con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd chia s\u1ebb quy\u1ec1n nu\u00f4i con.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an ho\u1eb7c m\u1ea5t hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

\"Ly
Ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1ea3m ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 sang ch\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd do b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n.<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1ea3m ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 sang ch\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd do b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n. Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00ean ba tu\u1ed5i, cha m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u nhi\u1ec1u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n s\u1eed tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng, khi\u1ebfn b\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p tr\u01b0\u1edbc nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n khi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p cho h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edt ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n v\u00ec c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfng kh\u00f3c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang khi ch\u00fang \u0111\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c m\u1ec7t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c to\u00e0n th\u1eddi gian b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00e1 cao \u0111\u1ec3 anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 chi ph\u00ed ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u nhi\u1ec1u sau khi ly h\u00f4n, khi\u1ebfn \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m sau khi ly h\u00f4n.<\/h3>\n

C\u00f4 ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i con v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 u\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 trang tr\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, Su Kem l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng n\u01a1i c\u00f4 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y chu c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng qua ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ba con, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i con. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i ly h\u00f4n.<\/h3>\n

M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ly h\u00f4n. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f2n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian mang thai do c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c khi mang thai.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 ngon sau khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec mang thai kh\u00f3.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1c s\u0129 b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec l\u00fac mang thai t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u00f3 con trong hai n\u0103m, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 thai. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eed m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb sinh s\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra!<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i nh\u1edb khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 thai. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi!<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

B\u00e0i b\u00e1o n\u00e0y vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con.<\/h3>\n

C\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 quanh qu\u1ea9n b\u00ean nhau.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0 c\u1ea3m k\u00edch th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 trong th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi ly h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 quanh qu\u1ea9n b\u00ean nhau. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ban cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i trong th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0 c\u1ea3m k\u00edch th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 trong th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi ly h\u00f4n. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf c\u00f4 \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n l\u1ea1c quan b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p m\u1ecdi \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 \u0111au l\u00f2ng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc.<\/h3>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 k\u1ec3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c anh g\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00f2ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ee5t m\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 trong nh\u00e1y m\u1eaft m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc. M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi ph\u1ea3i h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 trong khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c, v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u1ea3 thi, n\u00f3 v\u1eabn \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh.<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/p>\n

Trong b\u00e0i b\u00e1o “H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft”, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Selena R. Taylor n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang cho d\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb khi ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 g\u00ec?” Con c\u00e1i trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh xung quanh v\u1ee5 ly h\u00f4n. \u2014 Ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e2y c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean quan. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb coi vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t. Tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 sau khi chia tay trong khi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n. “Nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7.” Nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7. \u1ede M\u1ef9, c\u1ee9 ba gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi ly h\u00f4n v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ednh c\u00f3 h\u01a1n 40% tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua ly h\u00f4n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang 18 tu\u1ed5i. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em trong c\u00e1c h\u1ed9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 ly th\u00e2n. Tr\u1ebb em c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng tin, l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i sau khi ly h\u00f4n. Ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng to l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi to\u00e0n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i – t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ma t\u00fay v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m gia t\u0103ng. “M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n?” Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ly h\u00f4n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n g\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua. “Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh.” \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho c\u00e1c con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ed9c l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. “Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi cha m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n?” \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 ch\u00fang b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd xem x\u00e9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c ly th\u00e2n. Ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi ly h\u00f4n, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Ly h\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c ly h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n cho con. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, Sarah, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n cho tr\u1ebb em t\u1eeb n\u0103m 16 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a hai c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 26. C\u00f4 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f4 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i” m\u00e0 c\u00f4 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m. c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian cho con g\u00e1i d\u00f9 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang \u0111ang b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd do b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n. Sarah nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u1ecdt s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00f4 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 mua k\u1eb9o cho ch\u00fang khi ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t \u1edf nh\u00e0, \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a Sarah. \u2014 L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe sau khi ly h\u00f4n. 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