Nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n.<\/h3>\n
Nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ti\u1ec1n cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf ti\u1ebfn tho\u00e1i l\u01b0\u1ee1ng nan trong vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1edfi \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Toronto, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd th\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con c\u00e1i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111i l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd – mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00e1c nhau: mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd th\u00edch \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u01a1n trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd th\u00edch \u0111i l\u00e0m h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n Khi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n nh\u01b0 t\u1eafm ho\u1eb7c \u0111i d\u1ea1o ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 \u0111ang \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian cho con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1eeb 0-3 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf qua, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi m\u1eb9 \u0111ang \u0111i l\u00e0m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb em v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00ean t\u00e2m h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n V\u1eady d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian cho b\u00e9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7?<\/p>\n Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc m\u00ecnh n\u00ean d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho con m\u00ecnh. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c cam k\u1ebft kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3i chung, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean d\u00e0nh 30 ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y cho con m\u00ecnh khi ch\u00fang th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 8 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i r\u1ea5t th\u00edch xem TV.<\/p>\n M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch TV – t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd xem TV t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con g\u00e1i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 xem tin t\u1ee9c hay phim sitcom \u0111ang chi\u1ebfu ng\u00e0y nay.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n \u1ede \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01a1i v\u00e0o ban ng\u00e0y trong khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u00e0.<\/p>\n T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 xem TV t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c khi n\u00e0o v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ng\u1eebng xem n\u00f3. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y tin r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb xem TV v\u00e0 vui ch\u01a1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n B\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng xem tivi t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, ban ng\u00e0y b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i (th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e0 cho b\u00e9 ra v\u01b0\u1eddn hoa ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m ch\u01a1i) ho\u1eb7c d\u1ea1o g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, c\u00f3 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n Th\u1eddi gian tr\u1ebb n\u00ean ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 khi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c. \u0110\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 8-10 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay, tr\u1ebb em h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian cho tr\u1ebb ch\u01a1i.<\/p>\n Tr\u1ebb em n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 vui ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u1ed1t ch\u00fang trong m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng hay m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n Con t\u00f4i kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7, trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u1ea3 hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ra h\u1ecd sai nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n Th\u1eddi gian cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 tranh lu\u1eadn trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i \u0111ang thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian cho con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra v\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n Tr\u1ebb em \u0111ang l\u1edbn nhanh h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian cho con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i b\u0103n kho\u0103n li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n Nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ng\u1eafn l\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian cho ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n B\u00e0i n\u00e0y th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gi\u1edd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n Tr\u1ebb em r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho con th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u00fap h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n Ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eddi gian b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho con s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Theo nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc chung, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n Theo Anh Nguy\u1ec5n, Ph\u00f3 t\u1ed5ng bi\u00ean t\u1eadp Harvard Public Health Review t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard, th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho con c\u00e1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n \u2014<\/p>\n Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 then ch\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Tr\u1ebb em n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Theo ch\u1ecb Nguy\u00ean, kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh.<\/p>\n Th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho nhau v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong ng\u00e0y ho\u1eb7c cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Th\u1eddi gian cho con l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng trong s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con c\u00e1i. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 th\u1eddi gian th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c, bao g\u1ed3m ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, \u0111i d\u1ea1o, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o. \u2014 Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh. Th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n \u1edf cha m\u1eb9; \u00f4ng b\u00e0, c\u00f4 d\u00ec ch\u00fa b\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb em v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a. Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho h\u1ecd t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh. Ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eddi gian c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u1edf c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean, trong b\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch l\u00e0 g\u00ec C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m ch\u01a1i, \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 n\u1ea5u \u0103n. Nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho tr\u1ebb em h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con b\u1ea1n bao g\u1ed3m s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. \u2014 Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u lo\u1ea1i th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u00ed d\u1ee5: – Ch\u01a1i game c\u00f9ng nhau – \u0110\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u00f9ng nhau – \u0110i d\u1ea1o c\u00f9ng nhau Nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ti\u1ec1n cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd. \u2014 C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf ti\u1ebfn tho\u00e1i l\u01b0\u1ee1ng nan trong vi\u1ec7c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1edfi \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Toronto, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd th\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con c\u00e1i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111i l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd – mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00e1c nhau: mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd th\u00edch \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u01a1n trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd th\u00edch \u0111i l\u00e0m h\u01a1n. Khi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n nh\u01b0 t\u1eafm ho\u1eb7c \u0111i d\u1ea1o ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eddi. \u2014 C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111i l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 \u0111ang \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian cho con c\u00e1i. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1eeb 0-3 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf qua, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi m\u1eb9 \u0111ang \u0111i l\u00e0m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb em v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. \u2014 V\u1eady d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian cho con l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ecb em quan t\u00e2m. M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00ean t\u00e2m h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i. V\u1eady d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian cho b\u00e9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7? Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc m\u00ecnh n\u00ean d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho con m\u00ecnh. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":4625,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4623","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-babies"],"yoast_head":"\n![\"Nhi\u1ec1u](\"https:\/\/aucometoi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pexels-basil-otshudi-7942613-1024x768.jpg\")
C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111i l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i.<\/h3>\n
V\u1eady d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian cho con l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ecb em quan t\u00e2m.<\/h3>\n
B\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u1edf nh\u00e0 khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng xem TV.<\/h3>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang.<\/h3>\n
C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i.<\/h3>\n
Tr\u0103n tr\u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u00ean c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i lo c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 th\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111an xen, b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean b\u00e0n c\u00e2n 2 th\u1ee9.<\/h3>\n
Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 5 \u0111i\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9.<\/h3>\n
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T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/h3>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho ch\u00fang.<\/h3>\n